{"id":1045,"date":"2021-06-18T22:43:14","date_gmt":"2021-06-18T22:43:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/susieline.com\/?p=1045"},"modified":"2021-06-18T22:43:19","modified_gmt":"2021-06-18T22:43:19","slug":"5-infallible-ways-to-enjoy-positive-relationships","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/susieline.com\/fr\/5-infallible-ways-to-enjoy-positive-relationships\/","title":{"rendered":"5 Infallible Ways to Enjoy Positive Relationships"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Do you know how to transform your existing relationships into positive and happy ones, or do you often feel surrounded and overwhelmed by negativity?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

One thing I have heard from lots of people who are interested in raising their vibration\u00a0is that they often struggle with the negative people in their lives.\u00a0\u00a0When you want to live a more positive life, it can be especially frustrating to be surrounded by people who constantly complain, or who are rude or judgmental.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I still deal with negative people from time to time.\u00a0\u00a0However, I have found a few ways to improve the quality of the energy of the people who surround me.\u00a0\u00a0With a little bit of tweaking, I\u2019ve found myself surrounded by more positive folks, and the negative people in my life have either stepped back a bit or they have become more positive when I am around them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you would like to attract more positive people into your life, or if you would like for the negative people to make themselves scarce, here are a few things I recommend:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Focus on the good in people:<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Particularly when you find yourself angry or upset with someone, take a deep breath, and then take a moment to reach for the best feeling thoughts you can find for them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

For example, perhaps I absolutely loathe one of my neighbor’s unkind comments and constant complaining.\u00a0 So, in an effort to attract more positive energy from her, I can take some time to list out her redeeming qualities.\u00a0\u00a0Through she might say rude things and be selfish, he might also be a good mother and have a funny laugh.\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Now, this doesn\u2019t mean that I have to compliment her or be \u201cfake\u201d as some might think. \u00a0All I really have to do is offer a few intentional thoughts about her finer qualities. \u00a0That\u2019s it. \u00a0Of course, a compliment won\u2019t hurt, but it certainly isn\u2019t necessary-especially if it feels uncomfortable to give one.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

By choosing to focus my thoughts on the good in my neighbor, I will simultaneously be reducing my focus on her negative traits, and therefore I will be less of a vibrational match to the negative aspects of his personality.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019ll admit, with some people this approach will be a stretch at first, and might seem pretty counterintuitive.\u00a0\u00a0Luckily, though, as we start looking for the good in people, the more good will be revealed to us about them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Always remember, when we focus on the good in people, the people around us will be more inclined to show us their best.  We all shine a little brighter when the people around us notice our redeeming qualities.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Avoid complaining about the negativity:\u00a0<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Sometimes it is really frustrating to be around someone who is very negative, I get it-trust me!   <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Unfortunately, though, when we complain about the negativity we ourselves dip into a more negative state of mind.  Once this happens, we become an even greater magnet for more negative people to walk through the door.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So, as it turns out, your mom was right:  If you don\u2019t have anything nice to say, just keep quiet!  The negativity in others will never be remedied through complaining about it.  In fact, it only makes things worse!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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3. Strive to be a person you\u2019d want to have a relationship with:\u00a0<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Though some people believe that with the Law of Attraction you get what you want, in actuality with the Law of Attraction you get what you\u00a0are.\u00a0<\/em>Because of this, the more we project kindness, compassion and generosity, the more of those traits will be expressed in the people around us.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Therefore, instead of waiting for positive people to come to us, we can become the people we want to meet, and then more of these kinds of people will walk into our lives.  Sure, we may have our bad days and it\u2019s ok if we aren\u2019t \u201cperfect,\u201d but a little extra effort to be positive can go a long way, so it\u2019s always worth a shot to be more loving, generous and tolerant!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Replace your mantras about people<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Once we come to expect negativity from people in general, it becomes inevitable that we will continue to experience negativity from others.\u00a0\u00a0You can tell that someone expects negativity when they say things like \u201cpeople suck,\u201d\u00a0\u00a0\u201cyou can\u2019t trust anyone,\u201d \u201ceveryone\u2019s just out for themselves,\u201d or \u201cit\u2019s a dog-eat-dog world.\u201d That is because I have explained in other sections, it’s not really that we attract people or situations, it’s that we focus on small pieces of information and that can be collective fears like “You can’t trust anyone in this town” “Bosses are autoritative” So if you have heard these ideas enough, they become a belief, a mantra and what if you have a fair boss? You will be expecting them to behave the way it’s normal for bosses, because we like to be righ, more than anything. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Then, replacing our negative mantras about people can have an awesome effect on not only our relationships, but also in our encounters with strangers on the street.\u00a0Instead of generalizing the bad in people, replace these mantras with statements like \u201cwe\u2019re all just doing the best that we can,\u201d \u201cthere\u2019s good in everyone,\u201d or \u201cthere have been lots of people who have been kind and helpful to me.\u201d\u00a0\u00a0Then, when you find yourself feeling a little frustrated with the people around you, remind yourself of these new mantras.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When we default on positive (rather than negative) expectations of people we find that most of the people we interact with are decent human beings. \u00a0Changing our mantras about people is an easy\u00a0thing any of us can do to improve our relationship with humanity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Be responsible with your relationships.<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Having positive relationships in our lives requires us also to be aware of our traits, fears, emotions and behaviors, so it is important to know how powerful when it comes to creating the relationships that we want. It can be a fairly simple process.\u00a0\u00a0Simply focus in the good in the people around you, avoid complaining about the negative people, replace your mantras and strive to become the person you would like to have a relationship with, and set bounderies not out of fear but out of self respect. \u00a0\u00a0This approach is highly effective and will have a profound effect on the quality of your social life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

XO, Susie Line
Transformation Coach<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Become a member<\/a>\u00a0to access my\u00a0in-dept Raise your vibration resources for as little as $17. Also, feel free to\u00a0subscribe to my newsletter<\/a>\u00a0for more quick articles and videos like this.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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