{"id":710,"date":"2022-11-11T11:11:00","date_gmt":"2022-11-11T11:11:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.susieline.com\/?p=710"},"modified":"2023-08-13T15:14:10","modified_gmt":"2023-08-13T15:14:10","slug":"the-magic-of-listening-to-our-hearts","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/susieline.com\/es\/the-magic-of-listening-to-our-hearts\/","title":{"rendered":"The Magic of Listening to our Hearts"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There is magic in listening to our hearts, but let me tell you a story to elaborate in this statement. I remember how I used to think of what I wanted for my life. I would have a dream, and I would look for a book and get information on how to get it. Sometimes, my fears stopped me from doing something right away, whenever I read something that showed the incoherence of my dream, I just kept it for later. But I have always listened to the dreams of my heart and I have ended up facing almost all of my fears and going for what makes my heart tick for real. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So if you ask me for a formula to discover yourself and become happier, I would totally include to listen to your heart as top of the list. Yes, I am a list-kind of person. I make lists for almost everything, so I learn new words of the 9 languages I have studied, and I organize my daily activities, my thoughts and my feelings, because I discovered that listening to our hearts without any guidance, any method could make us feel confused. And we don&#8217;t have to. Yes, I have been confused too and believe me it&#8217;s not the end of the world. I do prefer it over not listening to what my heart is telling me that is important that day for me. Yes, our dreams, desires, goals and needs can change day by day, if we live fully each day since we are going to have more information, new techniques, new experiences that are going to transform the perspectives we have of life and even ourselves. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">For example when I was 16 years old, I dreamed of learning English so that I could be a good English teacher. And I looked for my opportunty to go to the States. My parents were teachers and I admired them, but languages, other cultures, networking had kidnapped my heart since a young age. And I thought I had to be a teacher, I didn&#8217;t see any other way I could serve the world rather than as a teacher that even until now when I am not teaching, I feel something is missing. But today I don&#8217;t have the same dream, I know now that I can put my English knowledge to the service of others in so many other ways and that&#8217;s what I dream of expanding my insights now so that my discoveries can be of help to as many people as possible. And I see my English as my most powerful tool because so many people learn English around the world so my English connects me with the others and for me that&#8217;s a dream that came true. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When I was in Germany, I dreamed of helping people. The German language is intoxicating, but also, I wanted to stay in Hamburg as long as possible because I met many people from different parts of the world since it is such as a comopolitan city. And I learned about the objectivity, organization of the society, but after listening to everybody&#8217;s ideas of how to contribute the best with the world, I thought I had to do something else than just speak German, I had to speak the most recognized language of the world, computers. Then, my dream became to create an app like this one that is famous today: Duolingo, that by the way, it rocks, not to learn a language, but to work on the pronunciation. And that was a combination of the society programming and my heart talking to me, because even when I had to work on my PDF presentations over night, and faced the fear of presenting my ideas in front of my collegues, I was motivated, happy, thinking my dream was going to change the world. But then I came to Cancun. I remember the first time I arrived here, I just thought I had walked in heaven. And the first night, I dreamed of staying here forever. And, yes, all my dreams of helping people with my multimedia knowlegde became this dream of being a teenager as I felt I had never been, and I wanted to have more fun in life. I wanted to be important in Cancun. I became selfish, buying stuff became necessary. I worked hard too, but my dreams didn&#8217;t come from my heart, but from my ego. I didn&#8217;t know that, so there&#8217;s no point in regretting about that now and I can&#8217;t really regret that much, because I did enjoy those years too. I have had everything my heart and my ego have wanted and I just thank God I have always had my spiritual teachers, my coaches to remind me that I could do it better, that there was more to life than empty success. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And now when I hear my coachees worry about not traveling, not making enough money, for example, I feel I can help, because for one thing I don&#8217;t judge the dreams of the ego, I have never given myself any excuses not to go for my dreams and I can see the positive in having those desires because I know making money, traveling can be good not only to break the routine, create incredible experiences, but also to face fears and grow. So, yes, I am not against having ego dreams, but I know that if we stop listening to our heart because of our ego dream, then it&#8217;s never enough and uncontrolled dreams of the ego can damage ourselves or the society. So that&#8217;s why I totally recommend the most succesful people to hire a spiritual coach, even though some might sound like they have weird concepts and convictions that are unprobable, it&#8217;s better to have a second point of view, a different perspective that will bring us to harmony. And with the time, you will remember that the dreams that come from our heart are more simple, more subtle, more personal, but more than anything more fulfilling. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Once I learned that truth, I accepted the parts I didn&#8217;t like about myself the most: loving languages even though I was not going to be able to speak all and I couldn&#8217;t be the best at any, I started my sales experience, the way I was invited to do sales, I remember it was magical, and it was my heart, I missed speaking my English, French and German and in my sales I could do it, but not only that, I could learn a new language, the language of sales and because I was listening to my heart, I made decisions, I was determined, the strenght to fight for my dream came from my heart and I became a Ninja in sales. I have felt like it every day ever since. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In the pandemic time, I dreamed of doing something positive for the world, using all the anger that I had in favor of the humanity. My dream was to understand where my anger was coming from, why God had given us emotions, if it was a bad joke. The answer came, I created my coaching method and with 7 questions, I take you out of any dense emotion you are dealing with. And life makes all sense to me now. But I could have suffered in the pandemic, maybe it could have been the worst time for me. Imagine, I had made myself believe I was a happy sales person, but what happens when you feel you can&#8217;t have what makes you the happiest, yes, we get angry, confused. Now, I know that this is precisely what the ego is all about for us to embrace a personality,  a role and to hold on to it. And it was through my coaching that I could remain even grateful when I heard the most shocking stories. Every time, I heard a sad story, they said no to my atttempt to go back to the life that I had loved, sales, I got angrier and I had to pray more, do more yoga, give myself more coaching, study more about the human mind and body and well, little by little, I realized that I kept on dreaming of going back to sales, but my heart had moved, and I could do sales or not, but it was coaching what brought me not only the euphoria of my sales, but the harmony, love, and purpose that is beyond my dreams. So I am really grateful that even in the worst crisis, I kept listening to my heart and that&#8217;s what I mainly teach today. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Then, that&#8217;s what I think that happens when we prefer listening to the news, the media, other people&#8217;s fears, before than to our heart, we are just denying ourselves the opportunity to lead the life that can bring the greatest joy to us and to our world, because if we listen to our heart we will do the work that is the most aligned to our talents bringing light to our true potential. And that is what is truly positive for everybody, alchemy, transformation, evolution. So are you listening to your heart enough? If not what is stopping you?  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There is magic in listening to our hearts, but let me tell you a story to elaborate in this statement.&hellip;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":true,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-710","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/susieline.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/710","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/susieline.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/susieline.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/susieline.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/susieline.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=710"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/susieline.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/710\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1099,"href":"https:\/\/susieline.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/710\/revisions\/1099"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/susieline.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=710"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/susieline.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=710"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/susieline.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=710"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}